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Is Adult Chat Really Just Phone Sex

Is Adult Chat Really Just Phone Sex


Chat services have, once again, become very popular – and NO, they are NOT just phone sex services. However, you should acknowledge a few facts about phone chat services before you register with just any agency. If you compare other channels of dating with phone chat, you will realise that chat through the phone is more convenient and a lot of fun.

Do People Really Find Companionship Through Phone Chat Services?

Happy Couples Meet Using Phone ChatFinding the right partner is not always an easy task. That is why the phone chat agencies have come up with a way of helping you to identify your perfect match. In addition, it will not take you long before you start communicating with many other callers on the service. To get started, you are simply required to record a brief introduction about yourself.

There are thousands of Australians who call every day, looking for a conversation or seeking a date. Companies allow you to access their database in order to find the perfect person for you. You can choose to date anyone who is available. However, you might want to pick someone with whom you have something in common. Using phone chat services increases your chances of finding the perfect man or woman for you.

After years of dating, my colleague found his new partner by calling a phone chat service. His life changed in less than two days. The service did not cost him a cent, since the service was free. Most phone chat services are free of charge. However, there are those that require you to pay a certain fee, after a trial.


Advantages Of Phone Chat Services.

Phone chat services are safe and reliable. Additionally, you do not need to spend outrageous amounts of money in order to access your profile and the profile of other people. Another great benefit is that you get to hear the actual voice of the other person before you meet. That means you can first get to know each other over the phone, before you decide whether or not to arrange a date. Another great reason to try phone chat services, is that you can find someone who is nearby.

You’re My Best Friend

‘You’re My Best Friend’ by Queen 1975

Queen’s bass player, John Deacon, wrote ‘You’re My Best Friend’ as a loving, heartfelt tribute for his wife in 1975. It features on the Queen album titled ‘A Night AT The Opera’.

One of Queen’s most popular love songs, it followed closely behind ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ entering the Top 20.

So here it is for all of you who are in love or married to your best friends.



A Big Wedding Or Elope

Should You Have A Big Wedding Or Elope

People say that romance is dead these days. They go on and on about how thirty or forty years ago, people tended to get married for life. They also talk at great length about the lavish, impressive weddings that people used to have. Other people say that lavish, huge weddings should be, and are, a thing of the past and that eloping works much better for most people these days. Who is right? Or is this a situation where no one is right…and no one is wrong?

Just Married

The real truth is, the decision to have a large, a small or no wedding at all is a deeply personal one. Each couple has to make a decision based on what is best for them, and no one else. It can be tempting to have a big wedding because your parents or your family want to have one, but that is one of the worst reasons to have a big wedding. If you are having a large wedding because your family wants you to, then you are not having the wedding you want. And who is getting married, at the end of the day? You, or your family?

So how do you decide? One of the best ways to tell if you should have a big wedding or not is to figure out how many people you truly want to come. Some people have a large number of family and friends that they want to come to their wedding. In that case, they should absolutely have a larger wedding. They would have to accommodate more people, after all!

However, if you find that you don’t really want very many people at your wedding, or you don’t want anyone at all, then eloping may really be the best choice. It may seem harsh to deny your parents or friends a chance to see you get married, but if they truly care about you, they will understand your choice.

Wedding RingsThe number of people you want to show up is a simple, yet effective way to figure out what kind of wedding you should have. If you want a big wedding, then go nuts! There’s nothing wrong with having a large wedding if that’s what you want (and can afford). But don’t feel as though you have to have a large wedding just to make others happy. You should have the wedding you want, not the wedding they want. Regardless of which option you choose, remember to apply for a marriage licence and ensure that you marriage is registered.

Phone Chat Has Become Popular Again

Telephone Chat: Why Is It Starting To Become Popular Again

There are some people who are still hoping that they’ll be able to find romance through online dating sites and other similar services. While online dating sites that match people’s profiles may seem like a nice idea, it doesn’t work for everyone any longer. Some people are trying to pretend to be someone else for a number of reasons, leaving the other party fooled, and time is wasted.

Today, many Australian individuals would like to be able to speak with the people that they’re dating virtually – however, most would like to talk to them and be able to hear the other person’s voice. Typing and the typical exchange of messages used to work for some people, but since many are more interested in hearing the other person’s voice, they then chose to change to using a free adult chat room.

Telephone chat used to be popular – back in the days when there was no internet yet. It was later on abandoned by many individuals hoping that these websites would be able to help them find the love of their life. While some people had success with these online dating sites, many are still searching for their one true love.

If you’ve tried online dating and failed, here are some reasons why telephone chat is better:

Hear The Other Person’s Response Real-Time

One of the common problems of online dating is that the responses usually take minutes, hours or even days! Sometimes, people just don’t have the patience to wait for their online date’s response, resorting to look for another person to talk to.

Telephone chat, on the other hand, allows you to hear the other person’s response right there and there. You can make things move faster now that your conversation is going to be spontaneous.

Hear His / Her Voice

Most people are able to tell if someone is being sincere or not, through their voice. There are also some instances where a person is attracted to the opposite’s sexy voice. Regardless of the reason, phone chat allows you to hear that other person live.

Have A Clear Communication

Most misunderstandings occur when messages are not typed clearly. Some people can’t seem to make it work out because of this communication barrier. With telephone chat, your conversation is spontaneous and you can easily clarify things, to avoid misunderstandings

You Don’t Have To Give Your Personal Information

With telephone chat, you don’t have to give out your landline or mobile number. As a matter of fact, you don’t even have to give out other personal contact information if you don’t want to. A server will connect you to the other person if you wish to speak with them – which means that your contact information remains safe, unless of course you have the permission to give it to the other party.

Telephone chat has a number of excellent advantages over the traditional online dating. This is one of the reasons why it is starting to become so popular again. If you’re looking for a friend, someone to chat with or trying to get lucky, hoping that you’ll meet “the one” – try out phone chat and you might just meet the person you’ve been looking for.

Are Office Romances A Good Idea

Are Office Romances A Good Idea Or Not?

When men and women work together, there is a chance they fall into the temptation of expanding their relationship into the romance zone. Sometimes, they share the office for months or years without any such thought, only to fall for each other unexpectedly at some point in time.

While office romances aren’t necessarily a bad thing, they could influence the work environment in a negative way. The two lovers tend to spend their time doing nice things or simply stating at each other, thus focusing less on their work. When this happens, their productivity might get affected, and they risk to get fired for not doing their job properly. This is why some Australian companies have a policy that forbids employees to get involved in romantic relationships. If this happens, one of them has to leave the company.

Another danger of office romances is related to the fact that professional interaction between the two isn’t always smooth. If they disagree on work issues, there’s a big probability for their romantic life to be negatively affected as well. Conversely, if they are in love with each other, they might become unable to see clearly when their romantic partner makes a work-related mistake. Even when they see such mistakes, they might find it hard to penalize them, thus impacting the company in a negative way.

Both situations described above referred to single individuals falling for each other in an working environment, as a consequence of a close cooperation in business-related issues. However, the romantic flame may get ignited between people who are already involved in personal romantic relationships outside the work space. Such office romances are never a good idea, as they usually lead to odd and embarrassing situations. Besides, all other things apply, the two lovers will tend to neglect their duties in favor of romantic activities and they might become less inclined to observe eventual mistakes made by the other. Their performance at work will decrease, so the risk of getting laid off will be higher.

Last but not least, we have to think about what happens when the romance comes to an end. The two protagonists will be forced to cooperate in their work, although they might prefer to never see each other again in their life. Since being in love is a stage that rarely lasts more than 2-3 years, falling in love at your work may lead to the need to quitting your job as soon as your relationship is over. This makes it a bad idea overall.

Love at First Sight

The True Meaning of Love at First Sight

Many people claim that love at first sight is as old as mankind. There are those who claim that they have experienced it whereas others claim that such a thing does not exist. Some argue that people often confuse sexual attraction with love.

Love At First Sight

This article looks at the definition of love at first sight and some of the qualifications.

There are plenty of factors that will make one get attracted to a member of the opposite sex. They include:

Auditory – The tone of voice
Gustatory – the way the first kiss tastes
Olfactory – the scent or smell
Kinesthetic– the way she moves
Tactile – how one feels including embracing

Visual perception is not the only thing that makes one fall in love with a member of the opposite sex. There are other ingredients such as cognitive ability which play a greater role in creating the attraction.

There is a difference between loving someone and liking a person. You can like someone at first acquaintance and also love someone at first acquaintance. Loving someone includes caring for that person, being loyal, empathetic, tolerant, considerate, and beneficent and being there for him or her.

Loving is intimate, it can be a personal activity that seeks welfare, happiness and the safety of the other person. Love at first sight is somehow romantic and there is always sexual attraction which may not be present in other types of love such that of a child and the mother. There is some deep caring in other loves which may not be present in love at first acquaintance because time is needed to cultivate the concept of caring.

Love takes time to be cultivated but love at first acquaintance does not have the time required to bring all the activities of loving to fruition. However, falling in love at first sight can lead to a full blown acquaintance.

Falling in love at a first acquaintance can only be said to have taken place if you resolve that indeed, this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. When you make up your mind to always cherish that person and commit yourself to share your deepest secretes with that person without pretending. If this happens, it qualifies to be love at first acquaintance.

The love should be genuine and should not be infatuation or sexual attraction. It should be a true start of a lifelong commitment.

People Prefer Sex Chat To Internet Dating

Reasons Why People Prefer Phone Sex Chat To Internet Dating.

Adult Phone Chat Services Telephone chat is the new age singles bar where communication is two-way in oral form. Many people are not open to direct (face-to-face) social conduct. In fact, research on this shows that a huge percent of those dating prefer to use such mediums as opposed to direct social conduct. Why, because they are insecure, self-aware and at times, self-absorbed. The new age trend has even gained popularity and is surpassing internet dating.

So why are more and more people ditching internet dating and jumping ship to phone chat?

  • First off, both services come with legal aspects that place limitations on how one should use the services. This is to ensure the security of every user. One of the main limitations is an age restriction, with many Australian internet and telephone chat services offer their services to people over the age of 18 years. This means no one will be held liable to chat a minor.
  • It is a perfect way for most loners and shy people to connect with the open world. These kind of people tend to feel overly intimated when engaging in first-time face-to-face interactions. For them, it is more about their physical and emotional appearance. However, telephone chat offers them a way of communication, thus taking away the shyness. The fact that there is a voice on the other end of the line gives an assuring feeling.
  • Another reason for the shift to telephone chat is little or no push for first impressions. Many of the internet dating sites will request for a profile picture and personal details to increase the chance of someone finding the ideal partner. Those rules do not apply in phone chat. Most telephone dates are just voice calls. Hence, this takes away the need to have that perfect physical appearance. It is all just good old-fashioned talk. People will be quick to judge another person based on their appearance. Research shows that the deepest connections in any relationship are built on open communication that create strong emotional connections. If such connections are strongly rooted, then the physical aspect of the relationship will always play second fiddle.

Guy Using Australian Phone Chat

  • The best part of telephone chat is the restriction of sharing personal information. However, the users are left to decide whether or not to share their contact details thus they control any outcomes of their actions. Nevertheless, there is a positive side to this. A person can opt to discontinue chat a certain person, and the communication is discontinued from that point on.

Your Perfect Compatible Partner

Tips For Finding Your Perfect Compatible Partner

Are you interested in finding your perfect match? You may want to spend time with a loving person who is compatible with you and willing to do some of the things that you are interested in doing. There are many different ways for you to meet this kind of person. You can start by creating an online dating profile with information about yourself and the kind of person you are looking to meet.

When you have a dating profile online, there are plenty of other people who can check it out. If they feel like they are compatible with you, they can contact you by sending you a private message. From that point forward, the two of you can begin having conversations with one another until you both agree that it is time to take things further and meet. It is a safe and convenient way to find a compatible partner who you may end up spending your life with.


If you are not so sure about Australian online dating, that is not the only place where you can meet someone who could potentially turn into a lifetime partner. Whether you participate in any specific hobbies or if you are a member of a club, consider getting to know some of the other members who share some of the same interests. As you get to know more about the different members who have joined the same club that you are in, you may find someone who you think is worth dating and spending some one on one time with. All it takes is one simple conversation to get the ball rolling.

After you start getting to know people, you may end up going on a few dates before finding the one you are most compatible with. During those dates, it is best to ask certain questions without being too pushy about things. You want to get to know the person you are dating before you start trying to take things further. If you find out that the two of you are not really as compatible as you thought, you would easily be able to move on and start searching for a new partner who is much more compatible.

The best way to find someone that you are compatible with is to be yourself and be honest about what you are looking for in a potential match. When you know what you want and can make that clear, it should not be so hard to find your perfect partner.

What Has Love Really Got To Do With It

The BIG Question…What’s Love Got To Do With IT?